Workshops

Workshop Schedule

Friday 1st May
Erotic Leadership for Femme Folx

Hosted by Melissa Tofton
In a world where the abuse of power is no surprise, it is more important than ever to learn how to transmute pain and power into healing mechanism. This workshop will seek to allow you to explore your erotic sovereignty and agency through a variety of exercises and discussions. You will lean how to do sexy and profound things with notions around power and will seek to turn BDSM into a healing modality as a way to reclaim your erotic domain.

You will learn how to self define and embrace change whilst making space for a more creative way of connecting - beyond genitals or gendered ideas of what sexuality usually looks like. 
The Erotic Leadership workshop will show you the ways we can change patterns & physical memories of powerlessness into visionary action & courageous, impassioned activism. This is safe space to observe, explore and transform your inherent relationship to power. You will learn how to communicate your boundaries, both verbally and nonverbally to invite greater surrender and trust and will lastly normalise communication around desire and consent.

This workshop is for those that self identify as femme.

Saturday 2nd April
DIY Sex Tech Dreams

Hosted by Alice Stewart
This workshop will be an interactive and (virtually) hands-on discussion around topics relating to the blossoming DIY Sex Tech scene. Starting with a brief history of “stimulation devices” or electromechanical sex toys through the ages will then be followed by a technical tutorial on how vibrators work. Participants will break off into groups to dream up the next big thing to (speculatively) hit the Sex Tech industry. This workshop is designed to facilitate healthy and lighthearted conversations about how we relate intimately to our possessions, empowerment through DIY attitudes to building our own stuff, and customising our own pleasure.

Sunday 3rd May
Vulnerability & Connection

Hosted by Lydia Entwistl
Through a variety of exercises and discussions, we will be learning ways we can engage with our vulnerabilities allow us to feel more able to share ourselves authentically and connect with others. With an emphasis on creating safe spaces and respecting boundaries, we’ll gain a deeper understanding of how to take that first step outside of our comfort zone.

Monday 4th May
The Art of the Sacred Whore

Hosted by Ellie Walker
The word WHORE has historically been used to put transgressive wxmen – sexual or simply difficult – in their place. This workshop sets out to channel and honour our inner whore and explore the strong and offensive hags of history as a means to harness their powers today. We will look at reclaiming language and our roots along with the reigns of our sexuality whilst exploring a simple cyclical ritual for the urban wxtch.

Tuesday 5th May
Mini Sex Club: The Orgasm

Hosted by Sex Club
Sex Club is a conversational space intended to break the taboos around intimacy and sexuality. For this event, we open the floor to talk about ‘Orgasms’. Come listen with curiosity and share your knowledge & experience, in juicy detail, about multiple orgasms, no orgasms, ejaculation, clitoral/ g-spot/ prostate orgasms, shame of orgasms, bliss of orgasms, unwanted orgasms, full body orgasms... You name it, all parts of your experiences are welcome. Delve in and explore together the many faceted aspects of this wonderful, elusive and confusing human experience.

Wednesday 6th May
Romancing your inner lover

Hosted by Taila Rose
Perhaps you’ve been waiting for the ‘right person’ to come along, the one holding the magic that takes you to ecstatic states, without realising the right person has been inside you all along. Sexual ecstasy comes from within. We will develop self-appreciation and connect to the lover within. Part discussion, part guided journey, we will awaken the juicy part of you that is already whole and entirely capable of experiencing the fullness of your own pleasure and delight.

This is a space for you to meet your inner lover, no nudity is necessary. You may wish to have a mirror nearby, plus candles or some fairy lights to set the space for your indulgence.

Thursday 7th May
Womxn Sharing Circle

Hosted by Amy Anam Cara
Open to all womxn and non-binary individuals, join us in a safe and gentle space where we will share experiences, express our vulnerabilities, support one another end explore our deeper connections to the sisterhood.

Friday 8th May
Kinky communications: Aftercare for all

Hosted by Amelia Louise
Aftercare is an important part of any BDSM encounter that should tend to the needs of all playmates involved. In this workshop we will discuss what aftercare means, bust some myths, how to care for both submissives and dominants, how to structure discussing aftercare with potential playmates, practical tips, and emotional first-aid. A combination of advice, exercises and Q&A, this workshop welcomes individuals of all experience levels looking to improve their aftercare encounters.

Saturday 9th May
Slow Initmacy in the time of Pandemic

Hosted by Dominique Antonina
A workshop to cultivate a gentle and nourishing space for intimacy. We will be sharing experiences and using therapeutic resources for reflection and enquiry into what makes our encounters feel nourishing and what we need to feel safe, open hearted and held in an intimate space.

Sunday 10th May
Arousal & Desire: Awakening Libidos & Teasing

Hosted by Lola Jean
This workshop take a deep dive to some of our most well known erogenous zones without even touching them! The focus of this class is all about the elements of TEASE and how to get ourselves or a lover going in new ways. We’re not talking about your standard strip here folx, it’s time to get creative! This workshop will teach you the art of sensual connection be it with yourself or with a partner. You will discover new ways to change up your physical touch as a way to foster intimacy and better understand your libido.



Monday 11th May
Full Body Orgasmic Breath work

Hosted by Jem Ayres
Orgasmic energy is healing for our mental, physical and erotic health! Lets stay healthy and connected during this time of isolation and uncertainty. We can learn how to expand our orgasmic potential and raise our sexual energy within our own bodies, and guide this to where we need it most. Using breathe, sound and movement we can surrender into an expanded experience of meeting our arousal, beyond genital touch.

No nudity, touch or partner required. This is a solo voyage of sexual self-discovery.

Tuesday 12th May
Sexy Life Drawing

Hosted by Body Love Sketch Club
We can't feel each other at the moment, so let's celebrate feeling ourselves! A nourishing, creative tonic to self-isolation frustration, this workshop invites us to tap into our juicy feelings, enjoy the intimacy and eroticism of drawing (and being drawn if we choose to pose). All bodies, artistic capabilities and confidence levels welcome.

Wednesday 13th May
Worship Yourself!

Hosted by Celeste
A guided ritual to the most sacred, most vulnerable and most powerful part of your body: Your genitals. Reclaim your power and come home to your body. In this ritual we will go on a journey to the most sacred part of our body and together we will shift our perspective moving away from seeing them simply as instruments for pleasure, pain & shame but rather letting us re-discover them for the first time.

We will create a safe(r) space to open our hearts, our mind and eventually our legs. (No worries, video will be off and no one can see you.)

Thursday 14th May
Creating Emotions through Motions

Hosted by Annette Rebecca
In these times of social withdrawal, many of us are experiencing feelings of numbness and detachment. In this workshop we will be using our wonderful bodies to generate emotion through movement, and to reconnect with ourselves and our inner spirits of joy. Laughter really is the best medicine!

Friday 15th May
Truth or Dare!

Hosted by Gaia Harvey Jackson
Everybody’s favourite teenage party game is back with bells on. Truth or Dare invites you into a surreal and intimate experience of sexy silliness. This is not for the faint hearted. Truth or dare will push your limits, test your creativity, and expose your deepest secrets. 

Through a series of naughty dares, and revealing truths, you will form powerful connections with your fellow playmates, as you follow each other down the rabbit hole. This game is designed to create a held container where we can safely explore the forbidden, the formidable, and the down-right absurd.

This workshop is open for those isolating alone as well as those with partners. Through the sharing of experiences, we will go beyond what we think is allowed in order to free us from the confined boxes of social acceptability. As we reveal parts of ourselves that we think are shameful or embarrassing, we liberate ourselves from the chains they hold us in and offer ourselves the opportunity to be loved and accepted just as we are. What happens in zoom, stays in zoom!

Saturday 16th May
Expressing your love & desires through poetry

Hosted by Loussin Torah
Whether you've dreamt of performing Shakespeare Sonnet's or occasionally noted down a charming Haiku, poetry is an exciting gateway to expressing our heart's desires. All you need is a pen and paper...And one or two dirty little secrets. OKAY you can have ten dirty little secrets! In fact they don't even have to be dirty, nor do they have to be secret. Bring your Soulful secrets, your niggling thoughts, your tongue twisting tales, your heart-wrenching woes and your ear-gasmic fantasies as we take our pen for a walk around our pages.

In this workshop we'll look at how to actually begin writing, the nature of rhyming, a safe space for sharing our truths and touch on delivery and performance. This workshop is open to all genders. This workshop is for both the poetry SLAM champion and the absolute beginner.

Sunday 17th May
Sex Work & Activism

Hosted by Sonia aka Electric Girl
This workshop will seek to demystify the truths about what its like to be a stripper and will also make the case as to why sex workers need trade unions. Find out from Sonia aka Electric Girl who's been a sex worker for the past 7 years and is a prominent organiser for womens rights organisation ;East London Strippers Collective’ and ‘United Voices of the World’ union. In February 2020, Sonia won the important legal case against her former club boss whereby the judged ruled she and the dancers of the club were workers NOT independent contractors. During this workshops Sonia will tell her story, explain the legal status of the strippers in UK and what forms of activism she enourages to help better the conditions of sex workers in the industry.

Monday 18th May
Lessons in Self Pleasure

Hosted by Jem Ayres
Why struggle with social distancing and self-isolating when this could be a perfect time to fine-tune your pleasure! Self-pleasure is great for boosting your immune system, releasing oxytocin, self-connection, inner-resourcing, anxiety busting, stress relief and betters mental health (as if you needed an excuse?)


In this workshop Jem will teach you how to make self-touch a meditative practice along with demonstrating the various techniques of self touch. Through her extensive knowledge in Tantra, Taoism and Sexological Bodywork, she will you let you feel nourished and fulfilled whilst socially distancing. No nudity, touch or partner required.

Tuesday 19th May
A Guided Journey into your Desires

Hosted by James Boswell
Desire is inherently personal and your sensuality stems from your connection to your body and how it responds to the world around you. Pay attention to how you feel, emotionally and physically, and you will tap into what moves the deep waters of your sexuality. James will take us into a guided sensual journey where we explore our deepest desires and passions either with ourselves or with our muse of choice.

Wednesday 20th May
Booty Voodoo Dance Class

Hosted by Kitty Velour
Learn the scandalous art of the twerking! Come celebrate your womanhood by getting down and dirty with your jiggly bits. Kitty will teach you a rainbow spectrum of ways to twerk from the floor to the pole, and how to incorporate twerk into your dance movement. Shake, shimmy and shuffle to your hearts content with an hour of bouncing booties! I mean who wouldn’t want that!

All levels welcome!

What to wear - Booty shorts (the more booty showing the better), fishnets optional
Required: Knee Pads

Thursday 21st May
Movement Magick!

Hosted by Francesca Mariano
Movement Magick takes you to an hour long journey into myth making through the body. We will focus this session on our bellies and hips as the conduit for releasing stagnant energy and core strength, focusing on breathing and circular motions, to expand pleasure and grounding sensations.

The workshop will seek to activate sensual and erotic energy arousal as an act of reclaiming our birthright to pleasure and beauty beyond mirrors. Francesca will introduce her research "archaeo-choreology", and a closing circle of sharing at the end of the session. All bodies welcome, no previous dance experience required, come as you are!

Friday 22nd May
Love & Lust in Mythology

Hosted by Lonan Jenkins (Embers Collective)
From Ancient Greece to Celtic Ireland, come on a journey through world mythology to explore one of the most enduring themes within the human narrative. Looking at these ancient stories we will explore love's potential to make us, but more often then not, break us. In these stories it rarely ends happily ever after.

Saturday 23rd May
Real Talk - Tell me what YOU want

Hosted by Amy Anam Cara & Jonny Lee

Join us for an open and honest conversation exploring transparency in sexual communication. Have you ever found yourself in an intimate situation, unable to express what you really need and desire? This workshop is a safe and held space to explore uncomfortable questions that often run as an unheard script in our minds. Am I doing this right? This hurts, should I say? My yes has turned to a no, what should I say? Should I be hard? Should I be wet? Should I? Should I? Should I? If this is a familiar script for you, join us in the midst of this very journey openly sharing our methods and processes of holding intimacy in uncomfortable situations. All genders, relationship configurations, fumbling awkwardness, confusion and embarrassment warmly welcomed.

Sunday 24th May
Sensual Rope Magic

Hosted by Sophia Rose
A taster session to discover some ways to play safely and pleasurably with your partner (or yourself!) with ropes. We will think about negotiation and consent in ropes - reading and responding to verbal and non verbal signals in rope - and how can we use our bodies and the ropes to have a conversation with our partners.

We will also play with some basic tying techniques to start to explore the multitude of interesting ways in which the body interacts with rope. Previous experience is not necessary and you can participate by yourself or with a partner. Please bring a form of rope.

Monday 25th May
Dirty Talk: From teasing to Audio erotica

Hosted by Lola Jean
In this workshop you will learn how to make your own audio erotica or recorded sweet nothings as a means to not only up your dirty talk game, but to arouse yourself as well. The only bounds to our sexual creativity is the imagination, learn how to ignite and foster it!

There is a wide spectrum of dirty talk both in context and content. There’s a big difference between “tell me what you want to do to me” versus “tell me how filthy I am.” Audio erotica can range from meditations to living out fantasies, to one that are completely non sexual. It is up to us what we find erotic or pleasurable. Wether you want to improv it up or plan out your audiogram for that special someone, there are infinite avenues in this realm of the senses.

Tuesday 26th May
Be My Quar-entine? Smutty Letters for Desperate Times

Hosted by Rosy Pendlebaby
Aubergine emojis just don't cut it, it's time to rediscover the lost art of the erotic epistle! Be inspired by great love letters of old and learn to write your own dirty dispatches in this playful, smutty workshop to help us through these desperate times.

Wednesday 27th May
Mens Sharing Circle

Hosted by Joe Friday
Within the confines of cultural structures that we often encounter, it can be quite a challenge for Men to find open and supportive discourse in a public setting. This circle is open to anyone who identifies as male and would like to explore what can open up in nurturing positive masculinity in a safe environment, and welcomes anyone new to men's work.

It is completely confidential and extremely rewarding. It is a space that is consciously created by all attending and based around the principles of confidentially, active listening, no deflection with humour and speaking from the “I” to help everyone own and connect with what they are expressing. By sharing authentically and from a place of vulnerability, we give permission to those we are sharing space with to do the same allowing us to feel supported and heard.

Thursday 28th May
Sacred Solo Sex

Hosted by Stephanie Lawrence
Have you ever touched yourself the same way you do a lover? Whatever your response, let’s flirt with this intention. In this playful space, we’ll explore an embodied understanding of how to make love to ourselves as an act of self-worship. We’ll explore your personal narrative of self-pleasure & see where we may be allowing our own exploration to play second fiddle to partnered sex.

You’ll walk away knowing how to set sacred ritual space, engage with your primal & sensual self & honour your expression of pleasure. Whether you’re a seasoned disciple at the temple of your body or an atheist to self-love, let’s discover what your body craves.

Friday 29th May
Sharing circle: Non-Monogamy

Hosted by Dominique Bull & Mark
A held space to share experiences of non-monagamy and raise questions about it, open to everyone. When the apocalypse comes, which lover(s) do you run from the flames with? Is a booty call essential travel? Can you have group sex over zoom?!

Saturday 30th May
Exploring Pleasure & Eroticism through Zest

Hosted by Molly Tovv & Tallula Bentley
We invite you and a citrus fruit of your choosing to an evening of exploring your own deep capacity for pleasure with the everyday erotic. The zesty. The ordinary. Allow yourself to be seduced by the magnificence of your own earthly experience. A guided sensual journey into your body, to build a relationship with its language, and create poetry from the ever erotic nature of your inner world.

Sunday 31st May
Navigating Consent & Boundaries

Hosted by Emerald May & Drew Lawson
During this workshop we will practice noticing and naming our desires, valuing and voicing our boundaries, sharing feedback and reflections gracefully and deeply listening to our bodies. Using a combination of structures, from Wheel of Consent, embodied intimacy, authentic relating, breathwork, movement and somatic awareness, this workshop teaches transferable skills and tools for navigating sex positive spaces.