Pinky Promise
Boom Festival 2023
Pinky Promise is a collective of sensual deviants who create live-action hedonistic extravaganzas with a heart. From our pleasure parties & intimate workshops to our cabaret shows and festival stages, we continuously strive to create beautifully tantalising experiences for folks to explore & heal their sexuality in playful ways.
Pinky Promise Cabaret Show
Step inside Pinky Promise's dripping wet queer sensual realm as we invite you to indulge in our colourfully kinky tantalising cabaret show! Feast your eyes and lips on a seductive cast of performances that include Burlesque Dancers, Drag Queens, Circus Performances, Aerialists & Scantily Dressed Clowns!
Wednesday 23rd & Friday 25th July // 6pm - 7pm // (Location: TBA)
The Pleasure Parlour
Welcome to the Pleasure Parlour, a cute and kinky wonderland where we will be able to celebrate all things sensual and intimate! Join Pinky Promise as we guide you through a series of workshops and interactive experiences that will empower you to explore and heal your sexuality. Say goodbye to shame and taboos as we provide you with the tools to connect with your desires and boundaries in creative and consensual ways.
Workshop Programme
21st July
13:00 - 14:00
Calling the cat within hosted by Sara Musso
In this workshop, we invite you to fully embrace your inner feline and explore the world of sensuality in a whole new way. By embodying the cat within, we'll crawl, play, and stretch our way to a deeper connection with our bodies and our senses.
As we move like cats, we'll rediscover the joy of playfulness and the pleasures of our senses. We'll sniff out new scents, savour new tastes, and relish the feeling of our bodies moving with feline grace. Through this exploration, we'll unlock a new level of sensuality, connecting with ourselves and others in a more authentic and intuitive way.
So if you're ready to experience pleasure and connection in a whole new way, come join us in Calling the Cat Within. It's time to let your inner feline roam free and discover the untamed and sensual parts of yourself. Meow!
15:00 - 16:00
Unpacking Shame: Sexuality, Pleasure & Desires hosted by Kahra Reppert
Shame and sexuality are often interlinked because sexuality is deeply personal and can be a source of vulnerability. Many people are taught from a young age that certain aspects of their sexuality, desires, or pleasure are taboo or inappropriate. This can lead to feelings of shame and guilt that can be difficult to shake off.
In our "Unpacking Shame: Sexuality, Pleasure, and Desires" workshop, we'll be exploring how shame can impact your sexual expression and desires. Shame can lead to a disconnection from your body, difficulty communicating your needs and desires, and a lack of confidence in your sexual identity.
We believe that it's important to address shame head-on in order to fully embrace your authentic sexual self. Through a combination of group discussions and interactive exercises, we'll help you identify and release shame related to your sexuality. We'll create a safe and supportive space where you can share your experiences and connect with others who may be struggling with similar issues.
Our goal is to help you develop a healthier relationship with your sexuality and desires, and to build a stronger sense of self-acceptance and self-love. We believe that everyone deserves to experience pleasure without shame or guilt, and that by confronting shame related to sexuality, you can create a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual life.
18:00 - 19:00
Sexless Orgy: A Journey of Sensual Exploration" - Uschi Jagger & Lucy Fourgs
In the sexless orgy, we'll be rediscovering the lost art of intimacy and connection through the vibrant alchemy of clowning and physical theatre.
Artemis and Aphrodite, the last descendants of the Ancient Greek tradition of the sexless orgy, invite you to join them in a flirtatious symposium where you'll explore the boundaries of your sensuality in a safe and playful environment.
Through a series of interactive exercises and games, you'll discover new ways to connect with yourself and others, free from the pressures and expectations of traditional sexual experiences. With a focus on touch, breath, and movement, you'll explore the nuances of sensual pleasure without the need for sex.
As you journey through this playful realm of intimacy, you'll experience a range of emotions, from curiosity to vulnerability, excitement to relaxation. And with the guidance of Artemis and Aphrodite, you'll feel supported every step of the way. So come join us for a journey of sensual exploration that's sure to leave you feeling more connected and alive. Let's rediscover the beauty and power of intimacy, without the need for sex.
22nd July
13:00 - 14:00
How To Sassy Strip & Tease w/ The Sassy Show
Playful strip tease is a form of self-expression and exploration of sensuality that can help us connect with our bodies and tap into our inner power. Through undressing, we can learn the art of seduction and how to use our bodies to create a mesmerising and captivating performance that's both empowering and fun.
In this workshop, you'll discover how to unleash your own unique style of playful strip tease through sensual dance and body movement, all while keeping your clothes on if that's what feels comfortable for you. You'll also learn how to incorporate props and accessories to enhance your performance and bring out your inner Sass.
By embracing the power of playful strip tease, you can learn how to feel confident and sexy in your own skin, and explore your sensuality in a safe and supportive environment.
15:00 - 16:00
Playing with Shame w/ Hameed & Arturo
Are you tired of feeling ashamed or embarrassed about your sexuality or desires? Do you long for a safe and supportive space to explore your deepest desires and connect with others who share your journey? Look no further!
Our Shame and Sexuality workshop is designed to help you break free from the shame that may be holding you back and discover new ways to embrace your sexuality with joy and playfulness. Guided by a skilled facilitator, you'll join a community of like-minded individuals who understand the challenges and obstacles that come with exploring your desires.
Through a range of powerful exercises, we'll create a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your emotions, share your stories, and connect with others who share your experiences. Whether it's through the Mirror Exercise, where you'll learn to see yourself in a new light and connect with your inner beauty, or the Flirting Games, where you'll get to unleash your playful and flirty side, you'll learn to approach your desires with curiosity and joy.
And that's not all - you'll also get to experience the Group Cheering Exercise, where you'll be supported and celebrated as you take steps towards your empowerment and self-expression. By the end of the workshop, you'll feel a renewed sense of confidence, self-love, and connection with yourself and others. So if you're ready to break free from shame and embrace your sexuality with joy and playfulness, join us for this transformative workshop. Let's create a world where we can celebrate our desires and sexuality without shame or fear.
18:00 - 19:00
The Art of Impact Play hosted by Nick Odashus
Are you ready to explore the exhilarating sensations that come with the sweet sting of a whip or the tantalising thud of a paddle on your skin? Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just curious about the allure of impact play, this workshop is the perfect opportunity to learn, play, and indulge in your desires.
Together, we'll unravel the mystery of why our bodies and minds can't get enough of the thrill that comes with a well-placed smack on the bum. We'll discover the most titillating implements for your kink toolbox, from leather floggers to wooden paddles and beyond.
But don't worry, we'll also cover the delicate art of negotiating boundaries and safe words, so you can explore your fantasies with peace of mind. We'll explore the most sensitive areas of the body that deserve extra attention, as well as the ones that require a gentle touch. And let's not forget the techniques! From light and playful to intense and impactful, we'll demonstrate a range of techniques that will leave you feeling satisfied and begging for more. So come join us on this wild and playful journey into the world of impact play and kink.
23rd July
13:00 - 14:00
Reclaiming Diet Culture from Pleasure - Becky Young
Join Anti Diet Riot Club founder Becky Young as she explores the intersections between diet culture, sex positivity and fatphobia. Society has constantly found its way to make us feel that gaining weight is something we ought to feel shameful for which is how diet culture and fatphobia thrive in not allowing us to feel we ought to be desired if we don't prescribe ourselves to 'normal' body structures.
This workshop will break down not only how diet culture affects our sex life but will examine how we can honour our hunger for food and pleasure by fighting against the pervasive controls we set for ourselves that deprive ourselves from such natural joys.
15:00 - 16:00
Kink outside the box hosted by Kahra Reppert
In this workshop where we'll be exploring ways to own your most vulnerable and daring desires, and liberate yourself from shame and judgement.
In this workshop, we'll be creating a space of connection, truth, fun, and openness where you can explore your sensuality in places you've never allowed yourself to be seen before. Our goal is to expand your comfort zone and empower you to embrace your desires with confidence.
Through a series of experiential exercises, we'll help you change how you relate to your shame, desires, and sensual expression. We'll provide you with tools and techniques to connect with your authentic self and others in a deeper, more meaningful way. Our goal is to help you leave the workshop feeling more empowered in your sensuality, more joyful, open, and connected to yourself and others. We're here to get your kink outside the box and help you break free from the "What would others think?" mentality.
So, if you're ready to explore your kink, connect with your truth, and liberate yourself from shame, then this is the workshop for you! Come join us, and let's create a space of connection, truth, and empowerment. Let's embrace our desires with confidence and celebrate our unique sensuality together!
17:00 - 18:00
The art of intimate connection - Uschi Jagger & Lucy Fourgs
In this workshop we will be exploring the forgotten simplicities of shared human connection. In a world where we often feel disconnected and fragmented, it can be easy to forget the importance of tuning into ourselves and being fully present for others. But in this workshop, we'll be returning to the essential elements of communication, and rediscovering the beauty and power of intimate connection.
Through simple but often overlooked points of connection, such as shared eye contact, gentle touch of hands and back, we'll explore ways to connect body and mind, and be fully available to listen and respond to others.
With a focus on presence, vulnerability, and authenticity, we'll explore the nuances of communication that allow us to deepen our relationships and connect with others in a more meaningful way. You'll be invited to embrace the beauty of our shared humanity, and discover the joy and fulfilment that comes from being truly seen and heard. Through a series of experiential exercises, we'll explore the power of nonverbal communication, breath, and movement, and learn to cultivate a deeper sense of connection with ourselves and those around us.
24th July
13:00 - 14:00
Embodied Pleasure w/ Sara Musso
Welcome to our Embodied Pleasure workshop. In a world that often emphasises shame and insecurity around our physical bodies, it's easy to disconnect from our inherent capacity for pleasure. But when we forget to embrace our physical form, we miss out on the joyful and fun aspects of life.
In this workshop, we invite you to embark on a journey to reconnect with your body and the pleasure that comes with it. By tapping into the five senses, we'll explore how our physical form can allow us to experience pleasure in a myriad of ways.
We believe that radical love starts with acceptance and appreciation for our bodies as they are. By learning to cherish our bodies as the magical temples they are, we open ourselves up to the full range of pleasurable experiences that life has to offer. Join us on this journey of rediscovery, as we come back to the present moment, embrace our physical form and allow ourselves to feel pleasure in all its wonderful forms.
15:00 - 16:00
Slow Speed Dating - Jared Philippo
Join us where we'll be exploring meaningful forms of intimacy without the pressure of small talk and superficial connections. If you're tired of the dating scene and craving deeper, more inspiring forms of connection, we invite you to join us on a journey of self-discovery and playful exploration.
Our slow speed dating games are designed to elevate your senses and activate your lust for life. Whether you're looking for a new partner to join you on adventures, a sensual lover to tickle your desires, or simply another soul to lubricate your curiosity, this workshop is the perfect place to explore and connect.
Through a series of fun and interactive games and exercises, we'll provide you a space to show up as the fullest version of yourself, where your imperfections are celebrated and your prejudices challenged. You'll have the opportunity to connect with others in a meaningful way, free from the pressure of traditional speed dating events. Our nurturing and sweet experience is designed to help you feel comfortable and at ease, so you can relax and enjoy the journey. And who knows? Maybe you'll end up finding love in unexpected places.
18:00 - 19:00
Body Love Sketch Club hosted by Rosy Pendlebaby
Body Love Sketch Club is a life drawing class like no other, championing body positivity, creative empowerment, in which you have the option to pose and be the group's muse, as well as to draw. We celebrate the beauty of the human body in all its (optionally naked) glory, liberate our inner artists, and explore what it might mean to love and accept ourselves a little more unconditionally.
A nourishing tonic to the daily bombardment of idealised and sexualised depictions of bodies in our media, throughout, we will have time to reflect and share about our experiences of learning to look at the human body in new ways, and to connect with our innate childlike creativity. Leave all negative judgements at the door (along with your clothes if you choose to shed them when you pose) in this fun and empowering class! All bodies, artistic capabilities, and confidence levels welcome.
25th July
13:00 - 14:00
Flirting with Sassy Confidence - with Bx Sassy
Step up your game sugarpie and let your confidence shine. This workshop promises to give you a fresh wave of courage in your own authentic way of being and how to communicate in-the-moment wishes. We’ll use role play techniques to think about the ways we present ourselves, flirt, consent, communicate boundaries, and share our feelings. Plus, they’ll be time to practise saying out loud what we wish to come true. Wear your heart on your sleeve and sass with me honeys.
17:00 - 18:00
Boob printing hosted by Becky Young
Feel like your boobs are too small, too big, wonky, too saggy, too scarred, too hairy, all nipple, no nipple? ‘NO WAY!’, we say. There is no right or wrong way to have boobs and their diversity and difference is what makes them so damn enjoyable.
If you don’t believe us and you’re insecure about your breasts, OR you love them and want to celebrate their awesomeness then this workshop is for you. It’s basically like hand printing…but using your tits…and is way more fun, less awkward and more empowering than you imagine. It’s hella fun and hilarious, as well being a totally supportive, non-sexual, and creative environment.
26th July
13:00 - 14:00
The Fatherly Line: An invitation from the son hosted by Hameed & Arturo
As we explore the meaning of Radical Love at Boom, we invite you to join us in an exciting and transformative workshop that's all about exploring masculinity and the power of connection. In a world where gender roles and expectations are changing, it can be difficult to know what it means to be a man. That's why we've created this workshop as a space for all individuals to explore the complexities of masculinity and the power of connection in a gender-neutral world.
This two-hour workshop is an invitation to explore your emotions and vulnerabilities in a safe and supportive environment. Through a range of games, individual reflections, somatic exercises, and circle work, we'll create a space for an embodied process that allows you to connect with your emotions and explore your sense of self in a gender-neutral world. Together, we'll explore the power of connection, compassion, and brotherhood to heal our wounds and create a more loving and compassionate world. So come join us on this exciting and transformative journey and experience the power of Radical Love and connection.
17:00 - 18:00
Smutty Letters: Rediscovering The Lost Art of the Erotic Epistle hosted by Rosy Pendlebaby
We live in strange and disconnected times... Say no to the fast and flaccid romance of the digital age, and revive the lost art of the erotic epistle! Bid farewell to soulless swiping, sexting, and the scattergunning of dick pics to strangers, and bring back the exchange of carefully-crafted, indulgently intimate, dirty dispatches sent via slow and sexy snail mail!
Lie back and listen to this month's selection of salacious readings of smut from yesteryear, before letting your own (creative) juices flow as you are guided through the writing exercises they inspire. Gently brush away the dust of shame and judgement and explore what it means to unleash your love, lust, and longing in epistolary form! Come on your own, with a lover, or a friend! This workshop is for all romantics in possession of a pen and some paper, regardless of gender, sexuality, or relationship status.